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January 25, 2009

and you wonder---which actually hurt more...

sometimes you are stuck on one of life's busy roads and all you want to do is stand there and look back...it might just be a highway buzzing with activity and there is a risk of being run down...but times like these, nothing really matters...an eerie silence is all you hear....

your enemy has stabbed you in the back because he did not have the guts to face you...
your friend has punched you in the face because he had every right and reason to...

the scar on your back reminds you of the betrayal u have faced...
but the memory of that punch brings back to you moments of a lost friendship...

both have caused immense pain...the knife might have left behind an ugly mark....the punch has'nt...but in the journey of life, you will remember the punch a lot more often than the stab mainly because it strangely has only fond memories coming back with it...

its true, you might never forget your enemies but your heart constantly searches for that one friend you lost along the way....hoping that someday he might just turn up and ask you to come back...

and then you realise the stab has left a scar but you dont feel the pain anymore...

but the punch, though silent and clean has left you with a terrible phantom pain, amputated for life!!

you are stuck on life's busy highway and all you can do is wish, wait and smile through the pain...

26 comments:

Sam said...

sometimes i wonder what makes u write such thought provoking posts...

just superb!!

Sam said...

btw pls drop bi is nacheez ka blog

Trinaa said...

aaaaahhhhh! that came 4m d heart! i think i've been punched n stabbed n a few more things...but m not sure whether i've done d same to anyone..

ever since i've discovered life is a bitch i've turned into a dog to enjoy it!! ;)

Chriz said...

sometimes the pain teaches us great lessons..

tere is no point in attacking back.. just get the pain.. enjoy it and move on.. it would be such a great learning experience

Lena said...

it always hurts more to lose friends, be it your mistake or their. And the pain just would not want to go, not now, not ever. Hurts like hell, yet you do hope for the rest of your life it might change, even though deep inside you know it probably never will.
The bitter side of life. Your post helped me realize something. Guess thats what i needed as the answer to my questions.

rahul said...

angels like you dont deserve pain.
main aapki kuch madad kar sakta hoon aapke us dost ko batane mein to bataoo ;)
if its ur mistake tell him that u are sorry and that how much he means to you..

Hemanth Potluri said...

exp makes man perfect...hardship makes people know the meaning of things...this post had a whole lot of feel...it just has so much thoughts poured into the lines :)....but difficulty is never there forever...we get to move on :)..

urs..hemu..

Meera said...

Yes we wonder...which actually hurt more...
Very true!!

Ankita Agrawal said...

if u have had d best time of ur life with a lost relationship,just enjoy the pain...!

Smile coz it happened,though u might be totally empty from inside...!!

www.enchantinganki.wordpress.com

RADhika said...

fantastic post... it was so nice to read your post after such a long time...
i guess it is the extent to which we get involved in a relationship which determines the intensity of the pain...

Dewdrop said...

Endure... grieve... Move on... that's how I look at pain... nice post

Ria said...

very well written buddy! Has a lot of pain in it......hey btw there's something waiting for u on my blog.

Cяystal said...

That was heartending and pure out-of-the-heart material! :)
A hidden pain in it..which I feel so familiat with..keep the faith,mate!

Arv said...

were u reading my mind? I was talkin with someone over the last few days... but was reminded of the scar in the last 2 days... and been drifting away again from that person now :)

it sucks isnt it?

rahul said...

where are u?? dont be sad sweetheart if the person cares he will always come back :)

sawan said...

why do i feel tht i read it at the right time?? :(

Dr Roshan R said...

true...in the end, it is the pain that we caused intentionally to someone we cared about for our own needs that will haunt us long after everything else has passed away.. sad to say, only time heals it

Hobo ........ ........ ........ said...

gamo ka daur bhi aaye to muskura ke jiyo...

Nidhi said...

commenting without reading the whole post .. i read just one para and wanted to share something..

like its said moment are like water.. we once touch them and it is never back.. good/bad memories are same.. so we shud live in...

Pavi!!!! said...

n all we have to blame [ and thank] are the memories!!!

Princess Mia said...

such is life babes....

Princess Mia said...

hope u feel better soon

rahul said...

kahan ho???subah se try kar raha hoon.phn kyoo nahi utha rahi??:(

Rakesh said...

life tells move on yaar...ye sab to maya hai:).....i do not differentiate b/w friend and foe..its all about time....time jakhmdeta hai aur bharta hai..some will be friend for some time and he/she may become foe next time...depend...

batates_777 said...

So true !
your enemy has stabbed you in the back because he did not have the guts to face you...
your friend has punched you in the face because he had every right and reason to...
!
it brings back lots of memories here!

Vandita said...

bang on target doc, we do wonder and most often than not its the punch which hurts more.