tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post4035934922335877741..comments2024-03-22T13:04:44.760+05:30Comments on NOSTALGIC MOMENTS: of reel and real love...Prihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-12560479611924722010-06-18T14:19:47.859+05:302010-06-18T14:19:47.859+05:30i hav read all yr blogs frm start and i find yr at...i hav read all yr blogs frm start and i find yr attitude very similar to geet frm JAB WE MET :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-87248055825947193122010-06-17T10:17:26.720+05:302010-06-17T10:17:26.720+05:30@ lena and scribbling girl
u guys are undoubtedly ...@ lena and scribbling girl<br />u guys are undoubtedly the antiseptic amidst all the virtual brickbats flung around here ;)<br />(i appreciate the honesty with which the brickbats were flung though) lol!!<br /><br />but i have to say that you two might be the only ones who understand what im saying...and im happy to know that you agree with me and dare to go right ahead and say so..<br />its rare for people to take a clear stand for what they believe in, especially when in a minority, and that is something i truly respect :)Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-19765245889573956372010-06-17T00:41:03.474+05:302010-06-17T00:41:03.474+05:30I COMPLETELY agree with u gal :D
finally i meet a ...I COMPLETELY agree with u gal :D<br />finally i meet a women lib types who sees my pt too :D<br />I wdnt want someone who would want me to change just because of what he likes infact if he fell for me for who i m than love me that way....ya adjustments happens and ppl tend to start pampering and looking good so that ur partner appreciates and compliments...that accepted.<br />Looking good is one thing and changing ur identity to get in his good books is different....trust me such relationships never survive...only those survive where ur urself and he loves u for it...<br />Thats y i say the true kind of love is one where ur urself when ur with them.......adjustments are always there but ur core essence remains<br /><br />And gal ur in no fairytales such males do exist who can be crazy for the real u.....there u dont feel u adjust ..u feel happy to adjust and u dont realize u adjusted because ur being urself.....<br /><br />I did found such fairytale prince and i m sure u will find too :)Lady Whispershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15051384418188753857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-23398847871051680502010-06-16T20:41:11.250+05:302010-06-16T20:41:11.250+05:30@ mangomanbunty
naah..u got me wrong there...its n...@ mangomanbunty<br />naah..u got me wrong there...its not a contradiction...wht i meant there was that, im not someone who is going to settle for anything less than what i think is love, for love...<br />if my standards are met and i find true love then it would be great..but if i dont end up finding it, then im okay with staying single too...<br />but i cant allow myself to settle for something i dont believe in!<br /><br />hope that clears your misunderstanding about my comment :)Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-13911243895063636442010-06-16T20:35:15.200+05:302010-06-16T20:35:15.200+05:30but if they arnt, then its fine too.
but if they ...but if they arnt, then its fine too.<br /><br />but if they arnt, then its fine too.<br /><br />CONTRADICTION!MangoManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03077416355941220651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-37921733921826109172010-06-16T18:17:01.814+05:302010-06-16T18:17:01.814+05:30@ all
i agree with you when you say that adjustmen...@ all<br />i agree with you when you say that adjustments and some amount of compromise is necessary in a relationship...but i do not agree that it should be the BASIS of a relationship..<br />like the song says that you cant get your love just wishing and hoping...you should go all out and show it to him.<br />well, that i disagree with..i dont think that is necessary because if you are in love then it shows by ITSELF without you deliberately having/trying to show it..<br /><br />as for those of you who think im living in a fairtale, i dont mind it...and that is a personal choice :)<br />in my opinion, you dont need a prince to accept you as you are...someone who respects your love and reciprocates the same is enough for a happily ever after ending to the story..<br /><br />so in the famous words of carrie bradshaw i would requote<br />"im looking for real love--ridiculous inconvenient consuming cant-live-without-each-other kinda love"<br />and i believe that this kind of love, even though might need you to adjust/compromise will not let you notice you are doing so..<br /><br />i agree i have high standards when it comes to love...if they are met, then it would be fantastic..but if they arnt, then its fine too.<br />but rest assured, at the cost of looking stubborn--fairytale or not, in no way or circumstance am i going to lower the pedestal i have for it :)Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-58493039962402471942010-06-16T14:29:27.225+05:302010-06-16T14:29:27.225+05:30"Love find its own way to the future without ..."Love find its own way to the future without you having to try!"<br />So do you mean one should drop all trying/wooing efforts? :)nandshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04572650066195506160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-1199856023059192072010-06-16T11:55:01.666+05:302010-06-16T11:55:01.666+05:30@pri: i agee wid mmb's second comment.....ur l...@pri: i agee wid mmb's second comment.....ur living in a fairytale if u think som e prince is gonna cum and accept you for who u are...n ul live happily ever after...<br />in love, der are compromises, adjustments and many such stuff....if the two u do all this n still feel d same way for each oder after the end of all the trouble it took u to reach der, den i'd say that *you've found the one*Dreamcatcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02406351369640994918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-5835960969819596722010-06-16T08:21:46.073+05:302010-06-16T08:21:46.073+05:30aaj ke zamane mein itni honesty bhi theek nahi.aaj ke zamane mein itni honesty bhi theek nahi.rahulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17707661228392941747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-24440721325790248832010-06-16T08:18:44.349+05:302010-06-16T08:18:44.349+05:30:):)rahulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17707661228392941747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-44974554005200201622010-06-16T02:14:16.468+05:302010-06-16T02:14:16.468+05:30As a matter of fact, your concept of real and reel...As a matter of fact, your concept of real and reel love is totally reversed.<br /><br />Reel: "Wo pyar karey toh tumse karey, tum jaise ho waise karey.. yada yada yada"<br /><br />Real: Be practical. Work hard in a relationship. Make amends. Compromise. Make sacrifices.MangoManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03077416355941220651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-39837571992122180592010-06-16T02:12:10.578+05:302010-06-16T02:12:10.578+05:30Idealist!
To "be yourself" is hip. It&...Idealist! <br /><br />To "be yourself" is hip. It's fashionable. It's overrated.<br /><br />Forget head over heels kinda love and welcome back to reality. No one is perfect. And it would mean a lot to A if he makes B realize of her flaws and she tries to change some of the ways, of course after realizing where was she going wrong.<br /><br />But then, no double standards. Men should be expected to mend their ways as well that would make the relationship even sweeter!MangoManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03077416355941220651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-66033779341155447532010-06-16T00:33:20.130+05:302010-06-16T00:33:20.130+05:30Totally agree with Divesh.. If everyone is their o...Totally agree with Divesh.. If everyone is their own self.. there will be too many independent variables :)Bhushanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12370826336736151481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-24066721492970789422010-06-15T23:24:45.937+05:302010-06-15T23:24:45.937+05:30I don't know. I feel sometimes we all liked to...I don't know. I feel sometimes we all liked to be pampered, so what's wrong with showing the care when you do care?<br />Of course it should work both ways.<br />But then love and care are not something to be traded. Slight imbalance, on either side hardly makes a difference.<br /><br />Why don't we make such a song for guys telling them what to do for gals:Paditihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214896912439550806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-27575306866578417562010-06-15T22:07:46.699+05:302010-06-15T22:07:46.699+05:30I believe there is nothing in this post that shoul...I believe there is nothing in this post that should make someone hate you :)<br />When you are in a relationship some things come out natural, care is one of them. You don't need to show it extra. It is either there or it is not. We love the other person for who they are and so do they. They love us for the person we are. And what's the point of trying to be someone you are not. Be yourself, that's the only basis of the relationship.lenahttp://www.thecolorsmagazine.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-54333042488845502152010-06-15T18:06:43.203+05:302010-06-15T18:06:43.203+05:30"Being yourself" is highly over-rated :)..."Being yourself" is highly over-rated :)Diveshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03199525318560734147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-67670805185057504742010-06-15T16:36:41.331+05:302010-06-15T16:36:41.331+05:30loved the last part..i am convinced.if it is to ha...loved the last part..i am convinced.if it is to happen, it will happen :)aditihttp://aditiscribbles.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-29417955157368319252010-06-15T16:26:03.896+05:302010-06-15T16:26:03.896+05:30@ phoenix
anger?? naah..just my opinion---with reg...@ phoenix<br />anger?? naah..just my opinion---with regard to woman's lib and excessive display of affection :)<br />what is your opinion on it?Prihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01023126998314268275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16896474.post-15621632680799221912010-06-15T15:46:52.992+05:302010-06-15T15:46:52.992+05:30That's a lot of angerThat's a lot of angerPhoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14427880766691064056noreply@blogger.com